well, before we get into the details of the process, i want to say a couple of things. #1- we have totally put this in God's hands. we have prayed specific prayers and they have been answered in a way that we can get it. like he's sending us a personal message. let's face it, this isn't something you can just make the decisions and expect God to go along with it. he has answered and will continue. #2- i have the most amazing husband. there are not many men who would let their wife carry another man's baby and approve of it!! from the first time i called him at work to ask him if i could do this he has blown me away. i tell him he is a saint for this. he will have to go without intimacy and when he gets 'it', he will have strict orders from the doc. he will take care of me when i am huge and can't do like i usually do. he will have to help more with the kids. he will be taking a whole new role. i love him for that. #2 is i would not do this with anyone but jeffrey and jennifer. the are the best. they are totally deserving of this baby. did i mention they want twins???? they are determined to take care of me and my needs. i want them to be here through the whole process and i know they will. jeffrey and steve have become good friends. they are like women when they start talking:) jennifer and i are a lot alike. we are both 'go getters'. to the point of driving our men crazy!!! there is nothing that will stop us.

i would love to hear some of your experiences. we are new at this and we are learning as we go. although i did some research on this, you don't know til you actually do it. we have an appointment march 11 for an ultrasound. they will be checking my inside plumbing. i am confident things are good. i had 2 great pregnancies and 2 unforgetable deliveries. i am going to make sure jeffery and jennifer have unforgetable experiences too!!!! i would appreciate any comments that are encouraging. there are a lot of opinions out there and we don't want any judgement during this. we have opportunities that we feel God is providing us with. we will not stop til He says stop!!!